Author: tryingtoo2015

  • Family Adventures Along the James River

    Memories of James River

    Growing up in the Ozarks, I have so many fond memories of my childhood. One of my favorites was walking along the river road with my family. We’d feel the cool breeze coming from the caves openings.

    We’d spend hours exploring the winding trails along the riverbanks. We skipped stones and listened to the gentle hum of cicadas in the trees. The laughter of cousins echoed through the woods as we played hide and seek. We were wholly immersed in the freedom that only summer brings. Each day felt endless, filled with the promise of adventure and simple joys.

    Every weekend between Memorial Day and Labor Day, we’d all drive down the narrow path to the back end. There, we would set up picnic tables for lunch. We’d have fried chicken, deviled eggs, chips, pork and beans. We’d also enjoy potato salad, fresh tomatoes, and boiled corn on the cob. Dessert included angel food cake and cookies. One of the first things we’d do was go down the gravel bar and dig for worms. We’d also go fishing for sun perch or small bass, carefully threading night-crawlers. After lunch, Mom would bring a few magazines to read. We’d sit around the campfire in our webbed lawn chairs and chat about what was happening in Springfield. We’d stop at a nearby gas station to air up our inner tubes for the river. One of the best tubes was a huge tractor tire. One day, it floated to our place, so we named it Moses. Playing in the James River was the best free fun. It was incredibly refreshing, especially on the hottest days of summer. We always remembered to lift our butts when we went through rapids or over rocks. We would then walk back to the river bar to do it again. In the afternoon, we’d mow the grass with Grandpa Nevatt’s Farmall Tractor Cub. Sometimes, the days would stretch into the golden glow of evening. The lighting bugs would start to flicker under the sycamores. The river would catch the last bits of sunset. Dad would say it’s time to roast a marshmallow. The air would fill with the smell of fresh-cut grass and a campfire. The steady croaks of frogs from the banks would give the perfect soundtrack for our trip.

    The day would end with pulling in the driveway on Stewart street. Unloading the lawn chairs,wet clothes and food. Coming in the house to get ready for bed and a new adventure the next day. We had fun.

  • Church Camp

    Daily writing prompt
    Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.

    Growing up in the sixties I always felt out of place at church camp. The camp I attend was a fundamentalist environment. All the girls first task was to pair up with a cute guy. I was never interested in guys because my attraction was for girls.I’m still dealing with post traumatic issues with religion. Black and white, hell or heaven?

    I now attend a progressive church where all people are valued. After 40 years of marriage I think I am a good person with special qualities.

  • Fall Colors and Persimmon Trees: Nature’s Weather Signals

    While enjoying a nice October 3 day at Table Rock Lake I noticed a persimmon tree near the waters edge. October returns each year with a promise of colors and crisp air. We survived the hot summer days and are rewarded with new beginnings. The small persimmon trees surprise us along walks in nature. The persimmon tree seed for the year 2025-2026 warn of needing a shovels to clear the sidewalks and driveways.

    1. Fork shape indicates a mild winter.
    2. Spoon shape stands for a shovel to dig out the snow.
    3. Knife shape means a cold icy winter (where wind will cut through you like a knife).”

    Along the highways you see the start of fall colors.Sassafras, sumac, and Virginia creeper are some of the earliest trees to change. If on your fall walk you find a persimmon tree, take it home. Split the seed open to see what happen this coming winter.

    “The seasons rotate as each brings

    Its special beauty to this Earth of ours.

    Winter’s snow and summer’s flowers;

    Frozen rivers will flow come spring,

    There is a renewal of everything.”

    –Edna Frohock

  • Compass

    Live your life by a compass not a clock.  Your compass comes from your family and friends. We know what is right but often don’t take the time to trust what our heart is telling us to do.  I am blessed to have so many family, and friends in my life.  img_2164-1

    Stewart Stafford.

    “Your decisions today, both big and small, determine the direction your life will take tomorrow.”